How can you approach her and get to know her without scaring her off?
It’s possible to do, though it’s probably not the best method. Messaging on Facebook is decent for getting to know basic details about someone, but it comes with a lot of problems. If Facebook doesn’t work out for you, try an online dating service.
Thus, we recommend that you use any other available method at your disposal to ask a girl out that you have interest in.
I saw that your profile picture shows you at the Grand Canyon — is that the first time you’ve been there?
I visited there with my family last year and it was one of the coolest places I’ve ever seen.
You don’t want to ask her to go up to your grandparents’ cabin in the woods with you for a weekend — that’s creepy.
It’s also important to avoid generalizations when it comes to the details of the date. in Computer Information Systems from Grove City College, where he graduated Cum Laude and with Honors in his major.
What do you think about meeting for coffee at the Starbucks on Oak Avenue this Saturday afternoon?
Note two important facets of this: meeting in a public place, and giving a specific time for a date.
If you have some inside joke as your “middle name”, change it so it doesn’t look strange.
Make sure your place of work is accurate so she can identify you.
After you’ve chatted a few times, you should stop and gauge the interactions so far before proceeding.